Ever wonder why guys don’t approach you or call you back, though you’re confident that you look good and are equipped with other traits that should land you loads of dates and plenty of guys standing in line just to talk to you?
Have you considered that perhaps, maybe you’re doing something to drive guys away despite your ravishing, good looks and wit? Are you too, pushy, intrusive, demanding? Do you smile frequently or do you maintain a serious stance? Are you on the hunt for the right guy?
These are questions that maybe, you should ask yourself when trying to solve the mystery of the absence of men in your life. Needless, to say, this doesn’t mean you don’t totally rock. It just means that perhaps, your technique is a little off when meeting single guys.
Well, take a deep breath and relax because we have some killer tips and advice on how to become the guy magnet you wish to be or should be already.
Guy Magnet Tips:
#1. When You Go Out, Go Out For A Good Time Not on The Hunt for Your Future Husband.
Don’t hunt for a husband when you should be having a good time while having a tasty drink. Guys sense when a woman is out on the hunt and even if they find you attractive, it’s too much pressure for them. They want to hang out with the girl that’s out having a good time and not with an agenda. Buy yourself a drink and have fun, there’s nothing more appealing to a guy than a girl that can have some fun.
#2. Don’t Bash Other Women.
First off, it’s ugly and it’s really not a fun or cool topic for conversation. You come off as a hater and worst of all as insecure and maybe even a little jealous. Guys don’t find that catty, trashing attractive. They like a confident woman, no matter of what she’s composed of. Be proud of who you are.
#3. Be Easy Going.
This does not imply to be “easy,” just easy going. Crack a joke, laugh out loud. Guys like the image of an attractive girl that can still hang out with the guys without being uptight about guys just being guys. It shows that you can roll with the punches and that you don’t take yourself so serious.
#4. Dress To Impress Guys Not Other Women.
You know the super cool and trendy stuff you where to sometimes impress your girlfriends such as skin tight cock tail dresses, stilettos that are killing you and the likes are really, normally over kill for guys. They may think you look hot, but how much fun can you be in clothes you can hardly move in? Guys prefer cute, butt jeans and t-shirts and some heels. You’ll look killer and ready for some serious partying.
#5. Genuinely Be Busy.
If you’re not busy, don’t pretend to be busy. When you’re genuinely busy it indicates that your life is fulfilling and that it’s filled with great stuff that he just wants to be part of. If a guy had to choose between a knock out of a babe that’s completely clingy and an average girl who is more than often unavailable, more often than not he’ll choose “average.”
#6. No Bitching or Whining.
So your boss is blowing up your phone after hours, your older sister is hounding you to take care of the kids for a whole weekend. Sure, all these things suck. But when you meet a guy, don’t bring it up unless you’re absolutely sure you’re going to keep it short and sweet. These kind of annoying things that linger can send you on a rant on “how much life sucks.” Save it, because if you blow it with a cutie because of your whining, life is going to suck even more. Face it, you can’t flirt if you’re complaining.
#7. Show Your Ambitious Side.
Guys just adore women who are passionate about something. Guys like women that are determined to make their dreams come true. It moves them while it also, motivates them and finally it enamors them with you. Share your passions while not sounding cocky. If guys are intimidated by your ambition and passion then most likely this is not the right guy for you. So move on.
#8. Become The Person You Would Like to Date.
This may be a little tricky in ways but necessary depending on what you’re looking for in a guy. If you’re looking for a guy that’s self assured and emotionally involved or any other combinations, you must posses the same traits. Think about it, how can you ask or want something that you’re not able to offer in return? It works just like Karma. If you were a guy and wouldn’t date yourself, chances are the guys you want, don’t want to date you either. This certainly requires a little soul searching. Who are you? And what do you want for real?
#9. The Art Of Sexting.
Nowadays, flirting goes on through many other portals that are not in person. However, you can still be a guy magnet if you perfect your texting and it doesn’t even have to be sexual in nature per se. Remember, guys like fun girls. Girls that are easy going. You can send out a text that simply reads, “Come out and play.” If you send this kind of text or something along those lines, just as long as it’s light hearted and free spirited, you’ll have the guy dying just to set eyes on your pretty face.
It’s not always how sexy you look, or the garments you’re wearing. It comes down to the vibe you put out. Don’t be a stick in the mud. Have fun and wear sexy but comfortable jeans that will allow you to be social, comfortable and feeling incredibly confident. You’ll surely radiate this vibe in whatever setting you’re at making you the guy magnet you wish to be.
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