Lust Wave

Ever wonder how your guy knows and feels that you are the “one?” I’m talking about soul mates and partners for life. Or maybe you’ve pondered over if you are the one for him? How would you know? Well, there are many ways and guys are pretty demonstrative once they’ve fallen for you.

I’ve concocted a list of traits that men adore in women and if you have a couple of these with a few variations, you might be the one:

• -You are his Best Friend.

Most guys look for a woman that they can be buddies with as well as romantic. If he can kick back and just chill out with you just like he would with his friends, you’re in luck because guys just love this. This means they like you so much they want to spend all their time with you.

• -You’re True to Yourself & Others.

Guys just love a girl that stick to their guns and make no apologies for who they are or what they like. It radiates a certain confidence that man just adore in a woman.

• -You Enjoy His Turf.

Let’s face it, a candle lit dinner is really not all that fun. It could be on occasions. But when guys want to chill out and let loose they most likely prefer a sports bar with loud music and a pool table. If you can enjoy and chill on his turf, he’ll be absolutely smitten by you.

• -Flaunt Your Talents.

If you play an instrument or sing, write short stories, paint or anything that shows a distinctive talent, show it off and not in a cocky way but let him in on it. I will continue having him interested because you’re so interesting.

• -You’re Not an Over-talker.

Sometimes us girls just ramble on and it’s usually because of nerves. Guys kind of really dig it when you’re cool and collected and don’t feel the urge to over talk as to compensate.

• -You Get Along With His Friends.

Guys like it when you can just blend in with his friends. They don’t like clingy but they don’t like it when you sit apart and keep to yourself. If you just chit cat with the buds as if you were one of them, it’s totally sexy to him.

• -Hanging Out at Home.

The fact of the matter is that most guys (not all but most) like hanging out at home. They enjoy the occasional evening out but much rather stay at home having drinks with you and watching a movie and relaxing things like that. If you enjoy this as well, he’ll love it because it won’t make him feel pressured to go out every weekend.

These are some key traits that men look for in a woman when they’re finally ready to settle down. You don’t have to have to be all these things. But if you posses at least two of these cool trait, he think you’re definitely the one.