The question that all men dread, does size matter? The average penis size is 5.5-6 inches hard. Size is really a state of mind for women, since studies have shown that the average depth of the vagina is only 4.5 cm. So if a man’s member is longer than this, the rest is just sort of a waste. So if the woman doesn’t see the penis before it goes in, she will enjoy the moment, but if she sees that the man is not large then she will have that in her head the whole time. 
It also depends on who you ask. There are some women who will say “of course size matters over sized or too small. Girls don’t want anything to cause them pain during sex, but don’t want something that they can’t feel either. Sometimes the man is blessed in size, but he doesn’t know how to use his equipment, it is of no significance.
The ideal average size that women would like to see on men is 7-9 inches. So men good luck with that.
Some couples wonder how often should they be having sex. If there isn’t enough in the relationship or maybe they are fornicating too much like rabbits. It all depends on the persons sexual needs, our desire in sex can be very personal. .
The average couple is having sex 1-2 a week. Some people enjoy daily sexual expression, and some need intimate contact several times per day. Many different factors can affect your sex drive and your sexual behavior. What is going on in the relationship.
How are you getting alone with your partner? If there is a lot of fighting, it may be difficult to connect sexually with one another or to be “in the mood” for sex. But some love to fight just to have the make up sex. The anger and the passion will always make sex better.
How satisfying is sex for you. Do you look to please yourself and your partner, or do you stop caring and trying? If the sex is fantastic, you may enjoy yourself so much that you want more of it. Are you able to communicate your desires and needs, with your partner? It is important to talk with your partner and tell them what you like and see what they might want to try in the bedroom.
You need to ask yourself is what makes you happy? Are you having fun sexually? What is enough for you? As long as you and your partner are enjoying yourselves, that is what is important!
A couple of professors at the University of Texas Austin have done some research and have come closer to understanding what makes women “want” to have sex. In this article, we’ll share with you what exactly they found.
Not such a big surprise? The researchers found women in their 20’s want to engage in sex just as much as their male peers. They attributed first time encounters to experimentation and a sense of adventure.
Many of the women in the study also admitted that some of their motives for sex were purely ambitious. Not exactly like prostitution, but rather, the women will sleep with their partner for a reason that may involve a favor or obtaining some kind of task they later ask for.
They also found sexual arousal is more complicated for women. That they are more physically driven to arousal by men who they find physically attractive and prefered men with symmetrically fit bodies. However, they concluded that this is not the only factor, as many women were also equally attracted to personaliaty traits.
Finally, the study showed that kissing was much more arrousing to women as pre-sex behavior and that the actual act of sex on a regular basis contributed to a healthier lifestyle (sleeping, eating, etc).